"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dated a girl for a while, and now shes pregnant

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I dated a girl for a few months and now she has become pregnant.


I dont see myself with her long term....we are just too different...but I want to be there for the child (she is having it, and Im not big on abortion either)

She lives with me and I was about to break it off when I found out she was pregnant... sigh, Im in a tough spot but I dont wanna be a bad guy.


advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DNA test the kid. You can get a kit online and swab the kids mouth and yours. IF it's not yours..... a get out of jail free card. Wouldn't sign the birth certificate before it [unless you are SURE],because you are then liable for child support in the eyes of the state[right or wrong]. Other than that, be a good dad
 
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Dump her, threaten to never pay a dime in child support and make sure she knows you'll disavow any knowledge of her or her kid.

Then put your moral position aside and offer to pay for the abortion. Do the right thing for your life.
 
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Did the crime now you gotta do the Time.....

If the kid is yours own up...if not you dodged a bullet
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First of all, get a paternity test if you have any doubts whatsoever if the kid is yours.

And if it is yours, morally the right thing to do is provide support to raise it.

Not saying that's what you have to do though. It all depends on what your moral code is.

And also remember that there's no obligation to stay with her once the child is born.
 
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She lives with me and I was about to break it off when I found out she was pregnant...
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What a familiar story.

Have you been rawdogging her and did she tell you she's on the pill?

Get a paternity test.
 
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