Dated a girl for a while, and now shes pregnant

[kingwilliam]

I dated a girl for a few months and now she has become pregnant.


I dont see myself with her long term....we are just too different...but I want to be there for the child (she is having it, and Im not big on abortion either)

She lives with me and I was about to break it off when I found out she was pregnant... sigh, Im in a tough spot but I dont wanna be a bad guy.


advice?

 

[sodbuster]

DNA test the kid. You can get a kit online and swab the kids mouth and yours. IF it's not yours..... a get out of jail free card. Wouldn't sign the birth certificate before it [unless you are SURE],because you are then liable for child support in the eyes of the state[right or wrong]. Other than that, be a good dad

 

[Zarky]

Im in a tough spot but I dont wanna be a bad guy.

You've been here since 2006 and you're saying stuff like this? Yikes, dude, just yikes. Best of luck.

 

[scrouds]

Dump her, threaten to never pay a dime in child support and make sure she knows you'll disavow any knowledge of her or her kid.

Then put your moral position aside and offer to pay for the abortion. Do the right thing for your life.

 

[women haze]

Did the crime now you gotta do the Time.....

If the kid is yours own up...if not you dodged a bullet

 

[Tiguere]

Do the hail mary.(Leykis)

 

[runner83]

First of all, get a paternity test if you have any doubts whatsoever if the kid is yours.

And if it is yours, morally the right thing to do is provide support to raise it.

Not saying that's what you have to do though. It all depends on what your moral code is.

And also remember that there's no obligation to stay with her once the child is born.

 

[Jitterbug]

She lives with me and I was about to break it off when I found out she was pregnant...

What a familiar story.

Have you been rawdogging her and did she tell you she's on the pill?

Get a paternity test.