Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Date?

youncleruckus

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Haven't seen it on here so I'm going to put it on you.

I was having a think sesh earlier and came up with this.
If you've got a bit of rapport going and are going to ask for the number, simply say, "Hey (xxx_HBname_xxx), date?"

Now the genius behind it is that if she's into you, then perfect, she'll give you her number, and if she says no, you go along the lines of, "What do you mean? / I was asking for the date", which'll make her feel silly, and/ or make her think about why she's thinking of you in that way, and finally, because,unless she's dull, if she isn't into you she can simply tell you the date, as you didn't 'put her on the spot' and make her feel pressured and what not.

Give us a bit of banter on this one will ya.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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