"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Date?

youncleruckus

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Haven't seen it on here so I'm going to put it on you.

I was having a think sesh earlier and came up with this.
If you've got a bit of rapport going and are going to ask for the number, simply say, "Hey (xxx_HBname_xxx), date?"

Now the genius behind it is that if she's into you, then perfect, she'll give you her number, and if she says no, you go along the lines of, "What do you mean? / I was asking for the date", which'll make her feel silly, and/ or make her think about why she's thinking of you in that way, and finally, because,unless she's dull, if she isn't into you she can simply tell you the date, as you didn't 'put her on the spot' and make her feel pressured and what not.

Give us a bit of banter on this one will ya.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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