"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So I went out with this girl on Friday night. The original plan was to go bowling, but she shows up without any socks. I ask her if she wants to go back to her place to get some, to which she replies "we can do it after we eat". Ok then, that's cool with me. Well, during dinner I tell her that I'm a musician. She starts to make it very clear that she doesn't want to go bowling. She suggests going back to my place if we happen to decide against bowling, so that we can play with my instruments. I hated to do it but I gave her a no-go on going back to my place. I didn't anticipate that she would want to do as much and my place looked like **bleep**. Anyway, we ended up going to the batting cages and just driving around trying to find a **bleep** park that wasn't swarming with people, with no success. What I'm getting at here is that it seemed to me that she was being a bit manipulative. If she didn't want to go bowling, why didn't she just suggest something else from the start? Did she show up in sandals intentionally? Just so we'd have to find something else to do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SHE WANTED TO FVCK!

:cuss:

:moon:
 

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HAHAHA. Guy, take that as a lesson learned, but don't take it too hard up your ass. :) Don't call her for several days, she wanted but you didn't give any, next time you make the date, just as her to come over and don't tell her what we gonna do (tell don't know yet if she ask). Then you put on a chick movie, hold her hand on the coach, one thing to another, you know.
 

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I'm not convinced that she wanted to come over for sex. She doesn't seem very experienced when it comes to this kind of thing. She says she doesn't like movies that much, but really likes videogames only she's not at home very often.
 

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onemorerobot said:
I'm not convinced that she wanted to come over for sex. She doesn't seem very experienced when it comes to this kind of thing. She says she doesn't like movies that much, but really likes videogames only she's not at home very often.
You're an idiot. You can't see it can you?

The sandals aren't the important part... she WANTED TO GO TO YOUR PLACE.

What the hell do movies and videogames have to do with it?


:crackup: :crackup:

You missed it dude. Better luck next time. This was an obvious come-on.

Tell me this: Why would a chick INSIST to go to your place otherwise? DO you have exotic animals on display? Is your house made of gold?

No.

She wanted to BE ALONE with you. In YOUR HOUSE. Where you HAVE SEX.


So in conclusion:
1. SHE WANTED TO FVCK YOU.
2. Make sure that your place is clean from now on so you can do the deed anytime.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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onemorerobot said:
I'm not convinced that she wanted to come over for sex. She doesn't seem very experienced when it comes to this kind of thing. She says she doesn't like movies that much, but really likes videogames only she's not at home very often.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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There is still a chance. Blowing her off does not mean it's all lost. Especially if the date was otherwise stimulating to her. Wait a week, play it cool, they do her.
 

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She never mentioned going to my house until after I told her I played music. Also, the rest of the date went well. I got a kiss from her at the end.
 
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