I've a got a first date with an ex-Russian model this morning. She's moved on into the professional world and appears to be pretty smart. Will the game of being dismissive and not interested in her modeling career be the best approach? She may be out for money, but I can always see how much fun I can have before I cut her loose.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Date with Russian model this morning
- Thread starter SingAgn
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Out for money AND marriage for US papers. Take caution. "Model" may also mean stripper/escort. In Russia good looking girls grow on trees, so do NOT praise her looks. Be cool, see what happens.
Good luck.
Good luck.
thanks!
The date went well. She wound up being a little late and was texting me about it. Nice of her to do that, but I replied with good think she let me know or I was leaving.
Tried to balance the sharing of info and appearing interested while putting out some disinterest as well and she seemed to be vibing to it. She hasn't modeled for a long time and I think she has become a little more Americanized. Needless to say, I'll take the advice to heart and keep a tight leash on my wallet.
The date went well. She wound up being a little late and was texting me about it. Nice of her to do that, but I replied with good think she let me know or I was leaving.
Tried to balance the sharing of info and appearing interested while putting out some disinterest as well and she seemed to be vibing to it. She hasn't modeled for a long time and I think she has become a little more Americanized. Needless to say, I'll take the advice to heart and keep a tight leash on my wallet.