I've a got a first date with an ex-Russian model this morning. She's moved on into the professional world and appears to be pretty smart. Will the game of being dismissive and not interested in her modeling career be the best approach? She may be out for money, but I can always see how much fun I can have before I cut her loose.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Date with Russian model this morning
- Thread starter SingAgn
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Out for money AND marriage for US papers. Take caution. "Model" may also mean stripper/escort. In Russia good looking girls grow on trees, so do NOT praise her looks. Be cool, see what happens.
Good luck.
Good luck.
thanks!
The date went well. She wound up being a little late and was texting me about it. Nice of her to do that, but I replied with good think she let me know or I was leaving.
Tried to balance the sharing of info and appearing interested while putting out some disinterest as well and she seemed to be vibing to it. She hasn't modeled for a long time and I think she has become a little more Americanized. Needless to say, I'll take the advice to heart and keep a tight leash on my wallet.
The date went well. She wound up being a little late and was texting me about it. Nice of her to do that, but I replied with good think she let me know or I was leaving.
Tried to balance the sharing of info and appearing interested while putting out some disinterest as well and she seemed to be vibing to it. She hasn't modeled for a long time and I think she has become a little more Americanized. Needless to say, I'll take the advice to heart and keep a tight leash on my wallet.