Chickfight
Senior Don Juan
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So I've read a lot on this topic here so I feel like I know what to do, but this is the first time I've really be in this situation.
I was at a visa office to get my visa to come to china when I run into this girl I used to go to elementary school with. She turned out HOT. We talk and catch up and bit and discovered we're going to the same place.
Fastforward to china. I had sent her a fb message leaving my number and telling her to contact me if she wanted to have fun. She calls me and I tell her to come out to this bar im going to with friends. She says she has to ask her boyfriend. I say thats cool, but bring some chicks or it just might turn out to be a sausage fest.
She shows up with her bf and my friends show up. a buddy of mine talks to her bf and i get some one on one with her. big buying signs were:
-She crawls out of the booth shes in with her boyfriend to sit next to me.
-She tells me about her she doesnt really like her boyfriend anymore and they broke up before but she felt guilty so they got back together and he basically followed her to shanghai.
-She keeps dropping hints he's leaving back to america soon.
-We talk about sexual topics on how she doesnt take birth control because the freedom drives her wild. I tell her we can always use a condom and she laughs.
-She mentions shes christian but when i ask if shes into no sex before marriage she says she more into forgiveness. though she did let it drop shes abstaining from sex with her bf.
So I pretty sure this girl is digging me. over the next week i call her a few times, but she doesnt pick up, she always calls back like 20 mins later whens shes alone. Today her boyfriend left and she texts me that shes free tomorrow. I tell her i know a nice japanese place and we make a date. It's a lunch date because her friends birthday party is later in the evening.
How should I play this? Im thinking, mention nothing about her boyfriend and just treat her like any other girl i go on a date with, be charming, dominant and escalate. Any pointers or things to keep in mind you guys can think of?
Thanks.
I was at a visa office to get my visa to come to china when I run into this girl I used to go to elementary school with. She turned out HOT. We talk and catch up and bit and discovered we're going to the same place.
Fastforward to china. I had sent her a fb message leaving my number and telling her to contact me if she wanted to have fun. She calls me and I tell her to come out to this bar im going to with friends. She says she has to ask her boyfriend. I say thats cool, but bring some chicks or it just might turn out to be a sausage fest.
She shows up with her bf and my friends show up. a buddy of mine talks to her bf and i get some one on one with her. big buying signs were:
-She crawls out of the booth shes in with her boyfriend to sit next to me.
-She tells me about her she doesnt really like her boyfriend anymore and they broke up before but she felt guilty so they got back together and he basically followed her to shanghai.
-She keeps dropping hints he's leaving back to america soon.
-We talk about sexual topics on how she doesnt take birth control because the freedom drives her wild. I tell her we can always use a condom and she laughs.
-She mentions shes christian but when i ask if shes into no sex before marriage she says she more into forgiveness. though she did let it drop shes abstaining from sex with her bf.
So I pretty sure this girl is digging me. over the next week i call her a few times, but she doesnt pick up, she always calls back like 20 mins later whens shes alone. Today her boyfriend left and she texts me that shes free tomorrow. I tell her i know a nice japanese place and we make a date. It's a lunch date because her friends birthday party is later in the evening.
How should I play this? Im thinking, mention nothing about her boyfriend and just treat her like any other girl i go on a date with, be charming, dominant and escalate. Any pointers or things to keep in mind you guys can think of?
Thanks.