"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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date with Girl with bf, need some quick advice

Chickfight

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So I've read a lot on this topic here so I feel like I know what to do, but this is the first time I've really be in this situation.

I was at a visa office to get my visa to come to china when I run into this girl I used to go to elementary school with. She turned out HOT. We talk and catch up and bit and discovered we're going to the same place.

Fastforward to china. I had sent her a fb message leaving my number and telling her to contact me if she wanted to have fun. She calls me and I tell her to come out to this bar im going to with friends. She says she has to ask her boyfriend. I say thats cool, but bring some chicks or it just might turn out to be a sausage fest.

She shows up with her bf and my friends show up. a buddy of mine talks to her bf and i get some one on one with her. big buying signs were:

-She crawls out of the booth shes in with her boyfriend to sit next to me.

-She tells me about her she doesnt really like her boyfriend anymore and they broke up before but she felt guilty so they got back together and he basically followed her to shanghai.

-She keeps dropping hints he's leaving back to america soon.

-We talk about sexual topics on how she doesnt take birth control because the freedom drives her wild. I tell her we can always use a condom and she laughs.

-She mentions shes christian but when i ask if shes into no sex before marriage she says she more into forgiveness. though she did let it drop shes abstaining from sex with her bf.

So I pretty sure this girl is digging me. over the next week i call her a few times, but she doesnt pick up, she always calls back like 20 mins later whens shes alone. Today her boyfriend left and she texts me that shes free tomorrow. I tell her i know a nice japanese place and we make a date. It's a lunch date because her friends birthday party is later in the evening.

How should I play this? Im thinking, mention nothing about her boyfriend and just treat her like any other girl i go on a date with, be charming, dominant and escalate. Any pointers or things to keep in mind you guys can think of?

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ProDJ26

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She wants:

1) To leave her man so she can continue to fvck as many men as possible

2) Have a baby (the real reason for no birth control)
3) She says shes a christian because she doesn't want you to view her as a slut

Only you can make the decision I wouldn't do it just because any girl willing to leave her man to be with me is a waste of time. To each its own
 

Chickfight

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ProDJ26 said:
She wants:

1) To leave her man so she can continue to fvck as many men as possible

2) Have a baby (the real reason for no birth control)
3) She says shes a christian because she doesn't want you to view her as a slut

Only you can make the decision I wouldn't do it just because any girl willing to leave her man to be with me is a waste of time. To each its own

Oh I know she's a christian, she goes to youth group meetings and knows a girl I used to go out with who was a christian as well. Plus her boyfriend has the look of a guy who isnt getting laid. And believe you me, I'm definitely going to wrap it up. No little kids running around for me just yet. Let me also clarify that I'm not looking for a relationship with this girl. She's leaving in a few days anyway. I just need advice for the best course of action to give it to her with as little resistence as possible.
 

Jaylan

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Dude id stay away. Are you that desperate for tail that you are gonna try and smash a girl with a boyfriend, esp one whos not grown up enough to dump someone she claims shes dating out of pity.

Hear me when I say you cant trust a thing some chick says whos trying to game while shes with someone. Shes playing you and prolly doing this with other folk as well.

And come on, I swear, its so sad to see guys so in need of sex that they have to game abstinent, "religious", women in relationships. There are plenty of single girls out there who would be easy to mack it to. You better than that bro

But if you do sleep with her, the boyfriend has met you right? I would watch out and not take her word for it that hes going back to the states. And no birth control? YOU BETTER USE A CONDOM. DONT BE STUPID!
 
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