"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Date with girl from Hong Kong

escaleraroyal

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My philosophy fclose or nothing.

Met her yesterday. Had date today. Weather was rainy and bad, but I shouldn't use it as an excuse to no fclose.
Started in the coffee shop, place was packed I didn't expect it. Found a place to sit and We sat next to each other and there is someone sitting next to me where it kind of bothered me. I didn't touch her or get her into my frame. Convo was lame as fuk. No teasing, no physical contact, nothing. One of my worst performance ever. Then I decided to take her to the park to escalate. When we were on the park it was super quiet but I decided no to escalate cause I felt she was not ready yet. We go back to my car cause it was rainy then she says she needed to go to the supermarket. We went to supermarket and then took her home. Asked if I can go inside her apt to check it out. She says "no", she gets off my car and walks away. It looked so disrespectful to me. She didn't even stayed to talk a little bit in the car. Fkin used me to drive her around.

I should have escalated from the beginning, waited for too long and the convo dried her possy. Overall rating about my date is 3.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First date I had with a HK girl went down pretty similar. Went for the kiss in the park and she was just tight lipped and pulled back.

I figured it was a cultural prude respect kind of thing and she would have to be broken very slowly.

I was half right.

She wanted to get together again so we met up and eventually ended up back at my place. Found out she can please a man sexually in ways many others can’t or won’t. She didn’t leave my place for a week and I took her whenever and however I wanted to.

Only problem is, once you get them there, they don't want to leave. They’ll start picking out wallpaper.
How was the conversation? I feel my conversation has dramatically downgraded because I lack of practice.
 

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If she is native, ill say this. China and North Vietnam women can come off cold. Its just part of the deal. I find it really good for your game though. I never understood this saying until i experienced it myself.
It's ok. I deleted her. I get dates almost daily anyway. I'm just a little rusty. I'm slowly getting my skills back.
 
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