"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Date with ex -advice

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Hey guys,

I am going on a date this Saturday with my exgirlfriend. She broke it with me 6 months back primarily due to my self esteem / confidence, and needyness issues (went through a period of depression with her) - got through the depression successfully.

She has her guard up, and seems to not respond well to blatant kino (hugging).

We are going for a hike - any advice to get her interest and attraction level toward me back up? This date (or chance) could make or break things. I want to make progress, even if its tiny steps.

My strategy: Keep things light and fun. Cautiously input subtle kino, and build it up from there. Keep conversations flowing, input funny remarks here and there. Bring a camera for pictures (she is into taking pictures of leaves during fall). Shes an art student by the way (if that helps).

Most importantly, I need to soften her up slowly and gently to bypass here guard - It is important that she becomes comfortable with my touch again.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A) This is a horrible and weird idea and completely regressive for your self-esteem and confidence

B) Since you probably won't heed that advice, just internalize the feeling of not caring whether she comes back or not. Dont fake it, dont sell it to yourself, be legitimately over her and you will probably have some success. Until you have that, my guess is you are SOL and shouldn't go out on a "date" with her
 
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Alright i think the biggest thing in this situation is that she thinks she has total power over you... for the simple fact that she probably thinks you want her back so badly that you'll practically do ANYTHING!!

my advice is to just to relax.. u dont have to pull some canned routine on her to draw back her attraction.. she has agreed to go on this "date" with you already, so their has to be something shes interested in... play the fun friend and keep your cool.. shes gonna test your manlyness.. recognize these tests and shoot em back at her..

good luck and like i said play the fun flirty friend

-Brian
 
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WhitePimp said:
A) This is a horrible and weird idea and completely regressive for your self-esteem and confidence
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So true......
 
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