Date Tomorrow, Need Advice

[Infinity]

Girl wants to go to EXPENSIVE restaurant?? Need advice...

I've got a little situation here. Last week I met this foreign girl at the club and got her number. She showed extremely high interest. I called her up today and left a message. She called back in like 30 minutes and I talked to her and she was eager to set up a date for tomorrow. This seems like a helluva an easy lay. But, here's the dilemma.

She was the one who offered to go to this new club that is opening and I hadn't heard of it, but I accepted anyways figuring it was a regular dance club. But, then I found the website and it is more like a restaurant and reservations are required. She was the one who offered this and I told her I didn't know about the place so it seems to me the onus is on her to have reservations. Besides, I don't want to spend money on a nice dinner with this chick. I just wanted to put in a little time at a dance club, getting some kino in, and then go back and screw her.

Now, I am considering changing the plans on her tomorrow, but I don't want to kill the interest level. I want to make this lay happen, but I don't want to be used for money. She is a Russian girl and I've heard they can be golddiggers. She asked some questions about me being in school and when I was graduating, whether I lived with parents, and all that, but nothing really indicated she was a golddigger.

What do you think I should do?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Only the man should dictate the how, the when, and the where!!! Never let a woman set the agenda!!! And never take a girl to a club - you go there to 'meet' girls and not 'take' girls!! tell her that you have a better idea and take her where you can spend time alone!!! She don't want to? OK, bye!!

 

[coldcoal]

She is definately running you through a hefty checklist on success. I suppose you can "next" her as a goldigger as most guys I think will respond, but I think you should test the waters anyway just for the experience. Don't take her to this place. Change the plans decisively and firm, but don't elaborate. Tell her to dress "casual/nice" and end up doing something cheap but "romantic", like a cheesy personal ad-type date under the moon/beach whatever. Bring an $8 bottle of wine, a hunk of cheese and a blanket. he he. See what happens. Play with it.

 

[Infinity]

I need a good excuse to tell her in order to change plans on her without making it appear that I'm simply unwilling to spend that much money on her.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Tell her you went on this website called sosuave .com and talked to some don juans and they told me not to let you set the agenda, so I am talking the bull by the horns, and I decided that a fun activity would better suit us for a first date and not a dance club with loud music - she says, "but it's not a club, it's a restaurant!" You say, "worst off, my mother told me to never talk with food in my mouth!" I rather do an activity alone together!! Lets go bowling!!! Any maybe for some ice cream afterwards, I only have $6 to spend!!!!

 

[mamefan77]

u know i read this whole thing....

and i think your decision should ultimately come down to.....

how big her cans are

 

[Reto]

Originally posted by coldcoal
She is definately running you through a hefty checklist on success. I suppose you can "next" her as a goldigger as most guys I think will respond, but I think you should test the waters anyway just for the experience. Don't take her to this place. Change the plans decisively and firm, but don't elaborate. Tell her to dress "casual/nice" and end up doing something cheap but "romantic", like a cheesy personal ad-type date under the moon/beach whatever. Bring an $8 bottle of wine, a hunk of cheese and a blanket. he he. See what happens. Play with it.

Yea. Be unpredictable. Change things...If she doesn't like it, you don't need her. There's another one right around the corner...

 

[NatureGuy]

From what you've said, both of you appear to be playing you're own self-centered games. So if you're only after one thing, why shouldn't she do something similar?

 

[Infinity]

Originally posted by NatureGuy
From what you've said, both of you appear to be playing you're own self-centered games. So if you're only after one thing, why shouldn't she do something similar?

You're 100% correct. Right now, my impression of this girl is that she's only good for sex. That might change, but it is how I currently perceive her. With that being said, I'm playing a Machiavellian game with her to get sex and spending as little money as possible on her. If she does decide to pay her half (which I'm not convinced either way if she will), then my perception will change.

 

[DJintheworks]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Tell her you went on this website called sosuave .com and talked to some don juans and they told me not to let you set the agenda, so I am talking the bull by the horns, and I decided that a fun activity would better suit us for a first date and not a dance club with loud music - she says, "but it's not a club, it's a restaurant!" You say, "worst off, my mother told me to never talk with food in my mouth!" I rather do an activity alone together!! Lets go bowling!!! Any maybe for some ice cream afterwards, I only have $6 to spend!!!!

LMAO!