"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What I do? I been on many dates and been reading this forum but I still fail dates hard.


Shes gonna get drunk today and im coming to meet her tommorow. Im probably invited to her home.

Its Internet date and our first one. I usually have her replying in couple secs and then I reply after 12hours or something.


Im 22 shes 28.


PS i know i need to be happy but im not and im working on becoming happy person but its not one night change.


I got her interested by selfie with abs. Of course i lost muscles already hehe.


Is there any way to score her?


Im feeling like canceling the date
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What?! You're 22 and thinking of dating a 28 year old woman?

Why?! Just because she's hot?

I believe that women want older men. If a woman can get an older man, she'll feel like her feminine energy can 'tame' that strong masculine old man.

I'm sensing a desperation from you. Let me guess the reason why you failed hard when dating a girl. Is it because you were trying to make her to like you by impressing her? It's obvious by how you tried to impress her with your abs. I'm not against someone having a great abs. How you make her feel will have more value for her than how your abs look like.

I don't do internet dating because if I do it, I'm at a huge disadvantage. Sending too much text usually will land you in a friend zone. Not knowing how her body react when I'm conversing with her makes me wondering whether she's interested in me or not.

I only date a woman who is interested in me. I'm not trying to to make her interested in while dating. She has to be interested first in me. I'm using Anti-Dump's Machine to filter them out. You should read them. There're in DJ Bible.

You want to be happy but you're still not happy enough. To be happy is easy if you are proud of who you are. If you hate yourself, it'll be hard to find happiness from inside. Don't let outer circumstances dictate how you must feel. Instead, dictate how you wanna feel. You see.. The later is how a dominant man act.

Girls will rather choose an average build man who has a strong mentality than a ripped abs man who has a weak mentality. The world is rough. Women feel this more than men. This is why they want men who can handle whatever is in it.

Dating is about having fun and leading her to the next level. You can't create 'having fun' by not happy from within. A man who knows how to to lead is a sexy man because he knows what he wants.

Do you know what you want right now? Every desire has a different outcome. Do you want lots of séx without commitment or do you want a meaningful LTR? Decide now and you'll know what to do next.
 

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What?! You're 22 and thinking of dating a 28 year old woman?

Why?! Just because she's hot?

I believe that women want older men. If a woman can get an older man, she'll feel like her feminine energy can 'tame' that strong masculine old man.

I'm sensing a desperation from you. Let me guess the reason why you failed hard when dating a girl. Is it because you were trying to make her to like you by impressing her? It's obvious by how you tried to impress her with your abs. I'm not against someone having a great abs. How you make her feel will have more value for her than how your abs look like.

I don't do internet dating because if I do it, I'm at a huge disadvantage. Sending too much text usually will land you in a friend zone. Not knowing how her body react when I'm conversing with her makes me wondering whether she's interested in me or not.

I only date a woman who is interested in me. I'm not trying to to make her interested in while dating. She has to be interested first in me. I'm using Anti-Dump's Machine to filter them out. You should read them. There're in DJ Bible.

You want to be happy but you're still not happy enough. To be happy is easy if you are proud of who you are. If you hate yourself, it'll be hard to find happiness from inside. Don't let outer circumstances dictate how you must feel. Instead, dictate how you wanna feel. You see.. The later is how a dominant man act.

Girls will rather choose an average build man who has a strong mentality than a ripped abs man who has a weak mentality. The world is rough. Women feel this more than men. This is why they want men who can handle whatever is in it.

Dating is about having fun and leading her to the next level. You can't create 'having fun' by not happy from within. A man who knows how to to lead is a sexy man because he knows what he wants.

Do you know what you want right now? Every desire has a different outcome. Do you want lots of séx without commitment or do you want a meaningful LTR? Decide now and you'll know what to do next.
so Should I cancel date and go for it when im more happy?

and nononono. I mentioned I got her interested in me because of ABS selfie. (only way in edating).

I have nothing against her age.


Answer for the last question is anything as long as sex is there.
 

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Wait, you're meeting an old drunk? She's old enough to have been your babysitter.

She'll be hung over tomorrow.

I would do nothing and wait until she reaches out tomorrow.
 

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Wait, you're meeting an old drunk? She's old enough to have been your babysitter.

She'll be hung over tomorrow.

I would do nothing and wait until she reaches out tomorrow.
lmao ! im planning on either canceling the date or going for 30min entertaining her hard and then leaving so she will miss me maybe
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I dont want to sound like the grammar police, but that sh!t was hard to read. I only made it halfway through.

Sometimes its easy to see why guys struggle with women.
 

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I dont want to sound like the grammar police, but that sh!t was hard to read. I only made it halfway through.

Sometimes its easy to see why guys struggle with women.
im polish dude. but thank you i will consider that when taking english women from you
 

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im polish dude. but thank you i will consider that when taking english women from you
You can't take women from anyone

You're a loser. <------- Understand this? Google it.

You used a picture of abs to trick a woman 6 years older than you into a date. I never understood the logic behind the people who do this. You do know she'll be able to see that you aren't fit and lied?

What's the point? Why lie?

Yes you should cancel the date. You will fail just like you have on all you other dates. You need to work on yourself.

Get fit.
Get confidence.
Get happy.


That should get rid of your desperation causing you to catfish women 6 years your senior.

Lmao at the nerve you had to brag about taking english women when your a catfish.

You're a joke
.

PS. If your asking for advice on an English forum. You should probably make sure you understand basic English grammer and conventions. Otherwise you make yourself look like a fūcking retard like you did in this thread. I swear people only do this with English. I don't go to Polish forums and slaughter your language. Learn English.
 

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You can't take women from anyone

You're a loser. <------- Understand this? Google it.

You used a picture of abs to trick a woman 6 years older than you into a date. I never understood the logic behind the people who do this. You do know she'll be able to see that you aren't fit and lied?

What's the point? Why lie?

Yes you should cancel the date. You will fail just like you have on all you other dates. You need to work on yourself.

Get fit.
Get confidence.
Get happy.


That should get rid of your desperation causing you to catfish women 6 years your senior.

Lmao at the nerve you had to brag about taking english women when your a catfish.

You're a joke
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PS. If your asking for advice on an English forum. You should probably make sure you understand basic English grammer and conventions. Otherwise you make yourself look like a fūcking retard like you did in this thread. I swear people only do this with English. I don't go to Polish forums and slaughter your language. Learn English.


not a catfish. thats my abs but i lost it due to stopped trainings. i thought i made it clear enough
 

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not a catfish. thats my abs but i lost it due to stopped trainings. i thought i made it clear enough
Catfish = pretending to look like something you don't

If you don't have abs then it shouldn't be on your profile. How would you feel if she has double ds in her profile pic and then when you meet up she has a cups?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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