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So I have a dinner date this weekend...I haven't been in this country for a few years. I've been in southeast asia for the past few years and am requesting advice for this dinner date with an American girl.
 

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Don't go to dinner.








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Take her somewhere that is not too expensive, maybe by the beach so you can go walk on the beach after instead of doing more things that cost money. Take a little cooler in the back of your car with some of those little (white) wine bottles on ice. When you pay give her the opportunity to contribute but otherwise pay the tab. If you don't hit it within three dates Next her!
 

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Dont waste a valuable friday or saturday night on a lame dinner date. Weekends are for guarantee lays or campaigning at the bars. Reschedule the date for a weekday asap!
 

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J Roc said:
Dont waste a valuable friday or saturday night on a lame dinner date. Weekends are for guarantee lays or campaigning at the bars. Reschedule the date for a weekday asap!
Good advice. Go hiking on a wednesday afternoon, get to third base out there, then take her out for drinks on saturday as a fun lead-in to sex.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Nothing wrong going to dinner. just dont pay for her !!!!
Yeah cuz who pays is gonna decide whether she likes him or not.

I said don't go to dinner simply because its BORING! If he doesn't know how to control the conversation and keep it interesting she will associate the boring dinner with him being boring.

J Roc took my advice to the next level and I agree; do something casual during the week, be fun, flirty and then hook up.

Dinner can come after he does!






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