"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kalash74

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So I have a dinner date this weekend...I haven't been in this country for a few years. I've been in southeast asia for the past few years and am requesting advice for this dinner date with an American girl.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't go to dinner.








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Take her somewhere that is not too expensive, maybe by the beach so you can go walk on the beach after instead of doing more things that cost money. Take a little cooler in the back of your car with some of those little (white) wine bottles on ice. When you pay give her the opportunity to contribute but otherwise pay the tab. If you don't hit it within three dates Next her!
 

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Dont waste a valuable friday or saturday night on a lame dinner date. Weekends are for guarantee lays or campaigning at the bars. Reschedule the date for a weekday asap!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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J Roc said:
Dont waste a valuable friday or saturday night on a lame dinner date. Weekends are for guarantee lays or campaigning at the bars. Reschedule the date for a weekday asap!
Good advice. Go hiking on a wednesday afternoon, get to third base out there, then take her out for drinks on saturday as a fun lead-in to sex.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Nothing wrong going to dinner. just dont pay for her !!!!
Yeah cuz who pays is gonna decide whether she likes him or not.

I said don't go to dinner simply because its BORING! If he doesn't know how to control the conversation and keep it interesting she will associate the boring dinner with him being boring.

J Roc took my advice to the next level and I agree; do something casual during the week, be fun, flirty and then hook up.

Dinner can come after he does!






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