"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Date Them All" Vs. "Choose or Loose"

PrinceBeavis

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So I've noticed two recent articles on SoSuave, one that says I should date every chick that says yes, and the other one says I should hold out for only the the finest woman alive to allow to be my eternal queen.

I can see validity with both points, as well as detriments, but the apparent contradiction is a bit like...well....a contradiction.

What to think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Juan and only

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Depends what you want to do. Live your life to get the most enjoyment, whether that be one quality relationship, or a thousand one-night stands.
 

Bonhomme

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Not only does it depend upon what you want, but what you have in play.
 

The Juan and only

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DJ1234 said:
Exactly^ you've got to see your options and what is available and then go from there....
then once you have that down you need to ask yourself Quality? Or Quantity?
Its up to you buddeh...
I honestly think you should do things the other way around. Don't limit yourself by what you see on the table in front of you, just be sure of what you want in life and go from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Here's something that every guy has to learn.

Use those opportunities for GROWTH and EXPERIENCE.
Go out with the girls who say "Yes" for experience.
You do not HAVE to be attacjed to them. You just have to have fun with them.
When your Ms. Right shows up , you'll be better prepared to handle the situation.
Sexual Confidence is not something you can get just by reading.


Remember, don't be a d1ck. But make sure YOU have fun too.
 

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A lot of things here seem to contradict each other. What I have figured is, every person is different, and every situation is different. Do what you feel is best.
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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I say date everyone who says Yes. By date everyone I don't mean get into an LTR with everyone, I mean just go out and have some lunch together, take a walk around a nice area, or see some movies or plays or something.

Looks are superficial and if you are looking for your dream girl to fall into your lap you will be disappointed on two fronts: first, the girl you may totally love at first sight may not be interested in you or be unavailable and second, if you do go out with her she may turn out to have some flaws you can't deal with or you may just not click.

On the other hand, if you date around you will soon realize what kind of girls you like more and which you don't, and you may even discover things you wouldn't have otherwise with some.

It's always a good idea to sample the field and then if you meet someone really worth your while then you can pursue a relationship.

Plus with experience you will gain confidence, as Interceptor alluded to, which will make it more likely you wil be able to get the woman of your dreams later on if she enters your life.

Consider this: if the woman of your dreams came into your life right now, would you really know what to do? Would you have the confidence to hold up a non awkward conversation and take her to places you know you'd have a good time at and not bore her at (as in take her somewhere other than dinner and a movie)?

Unless you've dated around and had some experience you really might not be ready for that. So take it easy, enjoy the ride, and don't sweat finding "the ONE" right away. She'll come, and you won't even know its her when you first meet her nor will you expect the timing of her arrival. She will just come.
 
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