Date rapport advice please

[TheGambino]

Got history with this girl. Dated before it was hard to arrange a meet with her so i ignored her texts like a year ago. She kept sending me 5 texts kinda obsessed because i ignored her. She did that for weeks but i ignored her because she flaked.

4 months later i asked her out again she ended in my bedroom but we didnt do anything but kino in the pub earlier.

Went out on a date last weekend(4 months later) Great date. Rapport about my new business mostly and her life, sexual talk, social and fun. Light kino from both sides. We had drinks and she gave me a ride home. At the end i kissed her cheek she did not turn her lips to mine. Then i playfully asked for a Kiss on my cheek and she playfully declined. After some talking about other stuff she bended forward to kiss my cheek and i quickly turned and kissed her mouth. She laughed slapped my shoulder and i bailed. She texts me 1 minute after. Next day asked how her weekend was and she replied late.

Today i texted a question about a store in town and she replied 2 word text and it took her an hour to replie.

How to proceed?

I know this girl for years. Always felt that she digged me not sure now.

Btw she is NO slut. Bareley has bfs and she was never in a serious relationship.

 

[marmel75]

Lack of escalation on your part leads to situations like these. When you have the chance to escalate and don't, you might as well have the mindset you won't get another chance, because in all reality, you many times won't.

Kissing on the cheek is weak. Asking for a kiss on the cheek is weak. Being afraid to go for what you want ends up getting you nothing in the long run.

 

[l__i__l]

^That and chit chat over text doesn't help.
Lay low and initiate a date in a week or 2, and gauge her interest.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Btw she is NO slut.

She'd like to be one...at least for you....but the pedestal you're putting her on is getting in the way.