"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was drinking at a bar with some buddies and noticed some guy putting something in one of my (female) friend's drink when she was talking to me. So I threw the drink into his face and told him loudly to stop putting stuff into my friend's drink, and he grabbed the glass and bailed out into the crowd. We looked around for him but couldn't find him (bloody wimp), so she's making a police report.

Now I've seen those TV commercials and college posters warning people to be careful with their drink, but this is the first time I've actually seen it happen.

Does anyone know if date rape pills are common? It seems sh1tty that they're circulating around. I mean alcohol is one thing, but these drugs seem to take away your self-control completely. Especially how most of the drugs dont seem to have taste or colour.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rohypnol, or 'Roofies, are quite common.

A dude in my dorm sells them. As they say in the ad, "Roofies, getting ugly people laid since 1990s"

:woo:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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good going Diplomatic Lies

this is what scares me when one my girlfriend goes to a party or anything. I tag along just to keep her safe. Thats the only way that I let her go because of past experiences with alcohol.

Plus my current girl's family was a family of alcoholics. That scares me to death of her getting hooked. I will forcibly stop her if need be.

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i woulda at least asked the guy how much that stuff costs.
 
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What I'm not getting here is why would he drugged your friend's drink when you're present?

I hope it's not some more sinister plot to frame you, bro if I were you I'd watch my back.
 
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Good call man. Not only the right thing to do, but it will probably net you a good rep with your friend's friends.
 
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Originally posted by Diaoz
What I'm not getting here is why would he drugged your friend's drink when you're present?
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It was a very crowded bar, and he probably just didn't notice me.

I was a little drunk, so I didn't have the sense to grab him or stop him. All I knew was that some guy was slipping stuff in her drink (for a second I even had the crazy idea he was poisioning her).

Well, live and let live. We're gonna be more careful about our drinks from now on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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