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Date Question...A VERY gorgeous girl

WORKEROUTER

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This Saturday, I plan to go out on a date with the most gorgeous girl I've been with yet, seriously.

I've dated attractive girls before and banged plenty of chicks, but to be honest, I have been feeling a little insecure about her simply because she really is that gorgeous and in such high demand from other guys.

Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.

However, I need some tips to make sure I do in fact do this and don't revert to past-AFC ways.

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.
i think that's the biggest thing that would hold you back (if you did). just read it back to yourself...and have fun on that date!
 

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
Ballroom dancing, more specifically one of those deals where they show you what to do then turn you loose.

Its adventurous and she won't expect it.
 
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