"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Date Question...A VERY gorgeous girl

WORKEROUTER

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This Saturday, I plan to go out on a date with the most gorgeous girl I've been with yet, seriously.

I've dated attractive girls before and banged plenty of chicks, but to be honest, I have been feeling a little insecure about her simply because she really is that gorgeous and in such high demand from other guys.

Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.

However, I need some tips to make sure I do in fact do this and don't revert to past-AFC ways.

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.
i think that's the biggest thing that would hold you back (if you did). just read it back to yourself...and have fun on that date!
 

Aaron B

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
Ballroom dancing, more specifically one of those deals where they show you what to do then turn you loose.

Its adventurous and she won't expect it.
 
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