"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Date Question...A VERY gorgeous girl

WORKEROUTER

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This Saturday, I plan to go out on a date with the most gorgeous girl I've been with yet, seriously.

I've dated attractive girls before and banged plenty of chicks, but to be honest, I have been feeling a little insecure about her simply because she really is that gorgeous and in such high demand from other guys.

Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.

However, I need some tips to make sure I do in fact do this and don't revert to past-AFC ways.

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Obviously, however, I need to not act any different around her than I would with the other chicks I've gone out with.
i think that's the biggest thing that would hold you back (if you did). just read it back to yourself...and have fun on that date!
 

Aaron B

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER

Also, I need a COOL date idea that doesn't involve a lot of money. NO theater dates, dinner, lunch, or breakfast dates, or coffee meetings. I want something involving, something where she'll have a good time, won't take forever, and can get some good KINO in.
Ballroom dancing, more specifically one of those deals where they show you what to do then turn you loose.

Its adventurous and she won't expect it.
 
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