"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Date in 2 hours....suggestions for provocative/interesting convo questions?

Smoker

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Thread title is self-explanatory. Preferably questions that range from light-hearted and fun to deeper and more probing. Also if questions are turned back on me, I'm thinking slightly evasive, ****y and funny replies are in order.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Focus on your date and let her do the talking and when she's finished, let her talk so more. Make sure that you're a good listener and even if you don't care

what she's talking about act like you do and contribute to the conversation in a way that lets her know that you've been paying attention.
 

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be natural and have a fun positive attitude. don't what about what you say just simplyu convey to her that ur a fun cool natural guy.When you start to feel a good vibe just escalate. Also i recommend kino from the moment you see her, i would start with a hug and proceed accordingly. kino early on make the transition to a kiss more fluid as opposed to jumping to a kiss with no prior touching.
 
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