Thread title is self-explanatory. Preferably questions that range from light-hearted and fun to deeper and more probing. Also if questions are turned back on me, I'm thinking slightly evasive, ****y and funny replies are in order.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.