"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Date in 2 hours....suggestions for provocative/interesting convo questions?

Smoker

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Thread title is self-explanatory. Preferably questions that range from light-hearted and fun to deeper and more probing. Also if questions are turned back on me, I'm thinking slightly evasive, ****y and funny replies are in order.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Focus on your date and let her do the talking and when she's finished, let her talk so more. Make sure that you're a good listener and even if you don't care

what she's talking about act like you do and contribute to the conversation in a way that lets her know that you've been paying attention.
 

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be natural and have a fun positive attitude. don't what about what you say just simplyu convey to her that ur a fun cool natural guy.When you start to feel a good vibe just escalate. Also i recommend kino from the moment you see her, i would start with a hug and proceed accordingly. kino early on make the transition to a kiss more fluid as opposed to jumping to a kiss with no prior touching.
 
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