"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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date ideas?

L-I-B

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I'm 18. Live in a pretty small place...(40,000) people...there's not a lot to do for a date. Maybe the movies or go out to eat. What are some fun and different things you can do?
 

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Chip

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Rent a movie and have her come over your place to watch it.
Or have her come our and you 2 could cook dinner together.
Go out for ice-cream.
Stroll through the park
 

jakethasnake

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It's not that hard.... try to think small, like a walk. As chicks often say, walks are very romantic - though not in January! :D

If you can, try to catch a sunset. Or on a spring or autumn day, a late afternoon stroll with soft natural light, or a midday stroll with crisp, cloud-free skies and brilliant sunshine. :)


All it takes is a little imagination.... it's the simple pleasures that enhance the time spent with a woman, not anything super-elaborate or fancy. ;)
 

Big Pappy

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Try this: go to Goodwill or somewhere and get a cheap plastic ukelele. Get a duraflame log, a blanket, a wire coathanger, some marshmallows, a lighter.

Get a bottle of pink champaigne, one glass and two straws.

Go to the nearest baseball field and walk the bases with her. On each base you walk, advance your sesxual experience with the girl.

You might even try to write a little poem.

Of course, if you put that much effort into the date, she's going to know you like her. Gosh, wouldn't that be horrible!
 

Runna13=)

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California
Action Dates
Picnic
Fly kites
Hiker
Roller skate
Ice skate
Bike
Go shopping at the mall
Etc.

I'm an active, outdoors kind of guy so I think these would be fun. Find out what the girl enjoys and think up some dates relevant to her interests.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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