"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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date ideas?

L-I-B

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I'm 18. Live in a pretty small place...(40,000) people...there's not a lot to do for a date. Maybe the movies or go out to eat. What are some fun and different things you can do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chip

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Rent a movie and have her come over your place to watch it.
Or have her come our and you 2 could cook dinner together.
Go out for ice-cream.
Stroll through the park
 

jakethasnake

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It's not that hard.... try to think small, like a walk. As chicks often say, walks are very romantic - though not in January! :D

If you can, try to catch a sunset. Or on a spring or autumn day, a late afternoon stroll with soft natural light, or a midday stroll with crisp, cloud-free skies and brilliant sunshine. :)


All it takes is a little imagination.... it's the simple pleasures that enhance the time spent with a woman, not anything super-elaborate or fancy. ;)
 

Big Pappy

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Try this: go to Goodwill or somewhere and get a cheap plastic ukelele. Get a duraflame log, a blanket, a wire coathanger, some marshmallows, a lighter.

Get a bottle of pink champaigne, one glass and two straws.

Go to the nearest baseball field and walk the bases with her. On each base you walk, advance your sesxual experience with the girl.

You might even try to write a little poem.

Of course, if you put that much effort into the date, she's going to know you like her. Gosh, wouldn't that be horrible!
 

Runna13=)

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Picnic
Fly kites
Hiker
Roller skate
Ice skate
Bike
Go shopping at the mall
Etc.

I'm an active, outdoors kind of guy so I think these would be fun. Find out what the girl enjoys and think up some dates relevant to her interests.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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