"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prodoge

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Hey guys,

I was wondering if any of you have suggestions for cool date activities/locations for a student in the early 20s with no real income as such.
(Got enough for going out at least on w-e)
 

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marmel75

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Walks in parks that have trails in them is a good one in the summer...leads to hand holding, close contact and making out usually
 

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I was reading today, that piers are romantic.
 

ubercat

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I'm probably getting a bit boring about this but I reckon farmers markets are awesome venues. Woman are natural gatherers they love poking around. And you can buy cheap hand food and a coffee which fits perfectly with walking around and keeps the date cheap.

Walking around the lake and feeding the ducks is also fantastic. Don't feed them bread it's like feeding the poor bastards Maccas. Cook brown rice with plenty of oil and peas and corn they love that. You can work in how you love to cook and your favourite recipe related travel story and ask her what she likes to cook where she's been and blah blah blah. Of course I also turn up on my motorbike and give them a ride so bonus points if you can work in a tough and tender routine.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

ubercat

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Btw date ideas I mentioned were for early going out phase. So you've done the deed and are showing her that you're a fun guy with different sides to you For a first date I'd go with Espi s idea. Build a little bit of comfort with initial standard chit chat and then escalate like a mofo.

With these routines I've had numerous girls that I've bedded say in a confused manner that they just felt so comfortable with me. Like I had flown under the radar and not activated their ASD.

Of course then I have to decide whether to toss them back or not which is the part of being a DJ that I don't like. Even though I know they would be twice as ruthless I don't have that titanium skin and emotion control chip like say g1000 or is that T1000 ;-) But hey it's a high quality problem to have.
 
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