"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NorwegianDJ

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Fellas, It's stupid of me to make this thread, but Im doing it anyway.

So I wanna take my 2 girls out this weekend. I'll figure out a way to invite myself to this market with Violet, but I have no idea what to do with Jailbait. I'm not too keen to take her to the mall, movies, beach. I'm just at a loss of ideas really. I guess a last resort would be to just walk around with her. Seems to work out.

Anyway guys, hit me with your ideas. ANY ideas. I'll take them and make them awesome, then set up some dates tomorrow. Impress me! :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jack Wealthy said:
Mother****ing finger painting. Forget the paint and the paper, then just make dirty jokes about fingerpainting.

Also, this thread already exists. SEARCH FUNCTION.
I know indeed it does. I guess I was just hoping for some awesome idea, which hasn't happened thus far.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Roller-blading. Fishing. Some physical activity. :rockon:
 

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Norwegian DJ said:
Anyway guys, hit me with your ideas. ANY ideas.
I guess I was just hoping for some awesome idea, which hasn't happened thus far.
Too good for our ideas homey? GTFO and go search. Or set up a date. And get laid, I wanna read about it.

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NorwegianDJ said:
Fellas, It's stupid of me to make this thread
Yes, it was.
 

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TOO GOOD.

I dont need dates to date. Hahahaha. Anyhow, I have the power to delete this thread anytime it would please me. Cheeeeeeeers fellas
 
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