"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Date her or f*ck her?

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Hey guys!

There's this one girl, let's call her Barbie for fun.

Barbie has been going out with her stupid jackass boyfriend for 2.5 years. Barbie meets AC/DC two years ago over AIM. They go to the movies and make out. How nice.

Fast forward to the present. After not speaking for about two years, we went to go see "Hitch", and we made out some more. She don't like her boyfriend but hasn't broken up with him yet, cuz he's kinda strange and wil prolly go crazy and break stuff. From what I can tell, he's cool but high-string and obsessive and posessive of her. He's ALWAYS on her nuts calling her and stuff.

So the question is: WHAT DO I DO WITH HER? She's definitely the most beautiful girl I've ever kissed or maybe even touched, and we have a lot in common, but I dono what she wants from me. I personally am looking for a girlfriend at least for now.Are we just friends with benefits? Is that all we can be? Should I bring this up? Would calling her once in a while help my case? (we only talk through occasional emails and once in a while I call to say hi).

Anything helps, shoot me your two cents
Thanks =)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is the risk worth the reward? Do you want to be her bf bad enough that you'll risk being her makeout buddy? You know she fools around on her boyfriend already, so is it worth the risk of going out with her, and then YOU getting fooled around on?

Only you can answer this, not us. That answer should determine your course of action.
 
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He hit the nail right on the head. If she's messing around with you while she's with the other guy, what's going to stop her from doing it to you? I mean, I'm not telling you to just fvck her and leave, but you developing feelings for this girl might not be the best alternative altogether. It's all up to you though man. I'd say just keep things the way they are now and see where they lead because you really don't know what she's looking for in you yet either.
 
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Originally posted by Jerky Boi
I'd say just keep things the way they are now and see where they lead because you really don't know what she's looking for in you yet either.
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How can I find out?
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
How can I find out?
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try patience. if she's digging you, no need to rush into things. let all the pieces fall where they may.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Haha, a poll would've been nice but anyways. Is this the girl you showed me the pic of on AIM?
Anyways dude I would keep it the way it is for now until she dumps him. You are happy with it like this right? And calling her once in awhile isn't so bad, but only stay on the phone for about 20 mins.

Good luck.
-Mike
 
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