"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bryce556

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Hey so great progress of late! Sarging and everything has been amazing, got this one girls number called her she was busy for my first date set up but accepted my second option of a monday to go to the fair.

Now i never called it a "date" i just said "lets get together" and etc.

she texts me like 10 miniutes later saying this

Her:"Sorry about the texting (i told her before iprefer to talk on phone) cant talk on the phone infront of zee boss. just checking this is a friend's outing right?"

now ive been hitting on here hard she has been ioi ing when we first met, so no way she should be mistaking for friendzone.

I play it stupid and say: "whats a friend zone outing"

Her: ie not a date lol

Me: well i dont hangout with girls im not into, but you might be crazy or somthing so who knows!. So lets just say id like to see if you are cool by getting to know you a bit

Her: thats good. hanging out i can do.


I neither confirmed or denied it was a date and pretty much said i was into her if she dident get the hint already, see seems kinda more like an innocent girl type. but i donno how she missed the hint on the "date" being 20 and hot.

**** test maybe? howed i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Serg897

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Not the greatest sign, but I would simply ignore it. Treat it like a date, and go for the kiss at the end. If she rejects you, no big deal. Move on.
 

Ease

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cud have said:

i dont date girls, i just pump and dump/hit and split/slide and ride

or wow slow down, dont get any ideas.

The first one is quite badass, the second is safer and easy. Your reply was disapointing, it sounded nervous and too long

:( :(
 
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