Date flake by text how do you react?

[TheGambino]

Whats the best way of dealing with a text flake on a meet: I can't come Im very busy, sory.

I flaked once on a running meet after that she flaked several times and now again so shes definetley out but how do you walk away like a man.

Ignore text and if i meet her indefferince and no attention?

Text back: Ok no problem and done

or just ok

 

[sylvester the cat]

This really is a no-brainer. All responses you mentioned are reasonable responses.

The main thing is you forget about her and move on to another.

 

[CJ 101]

Definitely text her back and tell her "ok, no problem " and then forget about her and spend your time focusing on other chicks. Life is too short to waste yuor time on a flakey ***** there's millions of other women out there who can replace her.

 

[TheGambino]

texted back 'ok' too show that I dont care no replie is an answer too. lol shes funny she changed her whatsapp profile in a sexy photo of herself just after my 'ok' answer.. lmfao next..

 

[skinnyguy]

"No problem...I actually had a date lined up with another girl at that time anyway"

 

[apprenticedj]

You played it right, no big response needed. If you don't respond at all it will seem that you're bothered by it. Now? Get some new ass ASAP.

 

[user name]

"No problem...I actually had a date lined up with another girl at that time anyway"

Dafuq?

YOu really need to stop giving 'advice'...

 

[TheGambino]

skinny thats worse advice bud, sayin I got another date arranged anyway is desperation I think she would see true that in a second

 

[user name]

skinny thats worse advice bud, sayin I got another date arranged anyway is desperation I think she would see true that in a second

This is that same abused girl you've been posting about for weeks on end???

Geez, brother...did you really have to ask?

Forget about her.

 

[TheGambino]

Yup its her bro.

I called her twice and it clicked well she laughed all the time. Even some sexual talk for hours, she singing and stuff I really thought I had her. she was really open answering everything and asking me a lot of questions. But this chick is f*cked up she goes up and down back and forth man.

We had a great convo on the phone.

I asked her out 'soon'.

SHe texts me herself yesterday in the afternoon, lets go grab a drink in 2 hours at that loc?

Replied no sory got work, lets go wednesday? she says maybe, I replie hmm nvm then im busy you know. she replies you dont want me? then: ok see you wednesday at 5 ! I replie you'll be a worse secretary..

she replies: wow why insulting me??

I replie: its a joke lol coz your changing time every second,
cant take a joke?

she replies: well i can take yours..

I ignore all day after that.

1 hour ago she flakes saying shes busy tommorow so no date, i replied on her text 'ok'. she changes her profile picture in a cexy one and i ripped her number. END

 

[user name]

Yup its her bro.

I called her twice and it clicked well she laughed all the time. Even some sexual talk for hours, she singing and stuff I really thought I had her. she was really open answering everything and asking me a lot of questions. But this chick is f*cked up she goes up and down back and forth man.

We had a great convo on the phone.

I asked her out 'soon'.

SHe texts me herself yesterday in the afternoon, lets go grab a drink in 2 hours at that loc?

Replied no sory got work, lets go wednesday? she says maybe, I replie hmm nvm then im busy you know. she replies you dont want me? then: ok see you wednesday at 5 ! I replie your a worse secretary..

she replies: wow why insulting me??

I replie: its a joke lol coz your changing time every second,
cant take a joke?

she replies: well i can take yours..

I ignore all day after that.

1 hour ago she flakes saying shes busy tommorow so no date. END

Ok. What was or wasn't said is immaterial. Fluff.

When it comes to text/email I lay off the ****y/funny because it doesn't translate too well - and this is coming from a guy who's done stand up comedy!

The only thing that needs to be done is determining her interest level. And this is done by arranging a date.

If she flakes (without a counter) - she's not interested.

Period.

End of.

Next!

Capisce?

 

[mbas44]

after personal experience and reading thread after thread on here, Im now somewhat convinced that texting is the most atrocious way of trying to communicate with women...Im not saying you did anything wrong, the girls probably kinda crazy or whatever, but its amazing how the littlest things can get taken out of context by either party and totally **** things up. Just reading your exchange in your last post I can almost feel both of you trying to "figure out" the other person..

 

[nismo-4]

I delete her number and drop her ass. Your princess is in another castle.

Case closed.

 

[TheGambino]

Yes man i just dont get it she asks me lets go for a drink i reSchedule with what said above and she flakes..

But 100% next im done

 

[user name]

Yes man i just dont get it she asks me lets go for a drink i reSchedule with what said above and she flakes..

But 100% next im done

YOu're not supposed to 'get it'. that is the whole point.

A woman's primary weapon in the art of love is the ability to confuse you.

When you are confused you are at her mercy.

A man's primary weapon in the art of love is indifference.

It is the only antidote.

 

[TheGambino]

A girl that likes you wont confuse you, yes i get it bro great words username ty buddy

 

[Wolfgang D]

A man's primary weapon in the art of love is indifference.

Words of wisdom.

 

[buzzin_frog]

Why don't you know what to do?......I've already told you what to do.....you already read my thread and commented on it.....you should read it again.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208637


Being indifferent doesn't mean sh!t if the chick has no interest in you.....because she doesn't give a sh!t about you!!

Uninterested chicks will just play games with you and string you along.....they are not interested in hanging out/fvcking you........as you have found out

You keep wasting your time on them....you feed them more attention.....they laugh at you behind your back...they string you along for a date...you show your desperation....then they make another excuse...then they flake....then you end up with nothing!!

Then those two guys who wrote in my thread want to keep pursuing them LOL

Like I said, it' a waste of time.....it took you all that time to learn she wasn't interested, when you could've known that when she flaked by text.

Interested chicks don't flake.....they want to see you

Uninterested chicks flake/make excuses...they don't want to see you

When a chick flakes....put her at the bottom of your list.....don't ask her out again until she shows some real interest in you....interested chicks will always want to see you..in fact you won't have to ask them out....they will be asking you out!!

This is another great example of what I've been talking about!!

 

[VladPatton]

Just say "ok" and delete her shıt. This is what happens when you try and try and try after a girl is just too shaky with you. Hope just doesn't work in the dating world.

 

[user name]

Being indifferent doesn't mean sh!t if the chick has no interest in you.....because she doesn't give a sh!t about you!!

quite the contrary.

being indifferent means a lot. for a start it means not caring when a girl is not interested, enabling one to move on to another girl with ease instead of obsessing about her and developing oneitis like OP clearly has.

indifference isn't something you pull out of a hat just when you want to manipulate someone. It is a state of mind. A way of life.

A form of dissociation. But in a healthy, powerful, jedi-like way.