“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MisterMike

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I went on a date with an attractive woman last night, it didn't work out, she seemed extremely arrogant and standoffish. She said she wants a guy to chase, give her gifts, and make her number 1 because she's special. She was pretty as a picture but a massive B. How should I have played this?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She told you what she is on the date. Listen. Nothing you could have done will change her personality or attitude. She's in the market for a puppy dog. Better ones out there…
 
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I went on a date with an attractive woman last night, it didn't work out, she seemed extremely arrogant and standoffish. She said she wants a guy to chase, give her gifts, and make her number 1 because she's special. She was pretty as a picture but a massive B. How should I have played this?
How ironic, I also want a girl who who chases me, gives me gifts and make her my number 1 priority because I'm special. We have so much in common!!!!
 

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She doesn't know what she wants. Isn't that what the typical guy does? Buy her gifts, chase her and make her number one priority?

You should have been an ass. You should have said "girl stfu, no one has time to chase your ass."
While sipping your drink nonchalantly.
That would have spiked her attraction.
And even if it didn't so what.

Gotta have big gigantic balls and take risks like that. It's 4 billion women you literally have nothing to lose.

But I bet she's waiting on a guy to pull her card like that instead of pandering like a p*ssy or letting her "little comments" get them off track like you did.
 
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It didn't really get me off track, it was more offputting than anything. Honestly, she seemed to take everything I said into something offensive, so I just got annoyed and called it a night.
 

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Lack of attraction/low interest likely triggered her poor attitude. Be happy she showed her cards early! Low self-esteem/insecure/emotional control issues are likely.
 

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Princess mentality. Wants to be given everything for giving nothing back. Goodbye.
 

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You should have been an ass. You should have said "girl stfu, no one has time to chase your ass."
While sipping your drink nonchalantly.
That would have spiked her attraction.
And even if it didn't so what.
True... the chick has already disqualified herself. So why would you care if you burn that bridge. Not how I would have handled it, I would just never contact her again. But if you wanted to play around with her and try make something happen, this is the way to go.
 

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Women who want you to chase them, also want to waste your time!

NnnnnnnnnNext!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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