"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scott7906

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Ok right, so I just asked this Myspace girl out on a date. We had been talking on MSN for a few weeks and I think we have lots in common. Were going to be meeting at the mall to eat at the food court before we go to see a movie. I know I know, I shouldn’t have asked her out to a movie but she was the one hinting at that. Anyways were going on Saturday, and I’m going to call her on Friday to confirm the Showtime and what time we will meet, and where we will meet.

Now I have a few questions for the experts:
1) Which part should I be paying for?
2) When I meet her should I just give her a handshake?
3) When we leave should I try to give her a hug?

Thanks again.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt

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messaging for "weeks" was way too long

no hugs, no handshakes. When you meet her, you can touch her in some casual way as you smile and say hello, maybe touch her hand, but don't shake hands like you would with a guy.

myspace girls tend to get little trust as far as paying their way. I still usually pay, but never for anything that amounts to more than a few bucks. If the money sets you back at all, then it is appropriate for her to at least offer to pay half.

You need to kiss her on the first date, or she will lose interest. Read up on the "kiss test" material. I never get very far past stroking a girl's hair before she is the one kissing me. myspace girls have a short attention span; you have to be exciting.
 

Scott7906

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She is not a typical Myspace girl though, and I wanted to get to know her before I decided to meet her thats why I talked to her for weeks. It seems odd to go on a date with a complete stranger dont you think?

Il be sure to read up on this kiss test.
 
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