"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Date Accident, I need immediate help

Precursor

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Yo sorry guys, i'm a HS kid but i need wise responses or anything immediately. I went out with my date and everything went really well.

Near the end of it though, while we were heading back (we were riding bikes) we went down a moderately slope hill. I was in front, and i braked because the lights were red. She crashed me and we both fell onto the concrete steps. I didn't get any serious damage but she landed on her wrist.

I immediately got up and tried to help her. Luckily (or not luckily) a police officer was nearby and helped her. She got our info and then asked questions. She could make a fist with her wrist, and she didn't hear a "snap" a person would normally hear when an arm breaks, but she has a hard time moving it. The cop called her brother to come pick her up (parents not home). THe date ended there with a hug.

I feel really guilty right now, as i am usually cautious about her safety. I hope she didn't receive a fracture or anything worst. She is laughing and happy when i called her as soon as i got home, her atttidue was "It could of been so much worst so i'm grateful". So i'm posting here to hope for the best. Damn waht bad luck.

Right now the game doesn't even matter to me. SS techinques, nothing matters!! I'm hoping for the best.

Edit: She needs to go get her wrist examined by a doctor to know the condition of her arm. So i don't know of the diagnostic yet. God i feel like ****
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lebRambo

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hahahah, holy sh*t thats funny!

oh man, this is one of those horror stories you laugh your a$$ of to but hope it never happens to you.

Hope it all ends up fine.

Oh man, that just made my day :)
 

Wyldfire

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It's not like you did it on purpose...and it's not like she has some life threatening injury. Females handle pain brilliantly...she is fine. Once a month most females have cramps for a couple of days straight. We can give birth without any pain medication at all (and it hurts like a mofo). She doesn't appear to be bothered by it and knows you didn't do it on purpose...so lay off apologizing and feeling guilty. Everyone has little mishaps like this quite regularly...it is OK.
 
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