"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Date Accident, I need immediate help

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Yo sorry guys, i'm a HS kid but i need wise responses or anything immediately. I went out with my date and everything went really well.

Near the end of it though, while we were heading back (we were riding bikes) we went down a moderately slope hill. I was in front, and i braked because the lights were red. She crashed me and we both fell onto the concrete steps. I didn't get any serious damage but she landed on her wrist.

I immediately got up and tried to help her. Luckily (or not luckily) a police officer was nearby and helped her. She got our info and then asked questions. She could make a fist with her wrist, and she didn't hear a "snap" a person would normally hear when an arm breaks, but she has a hard time moving it. The cop called her brother to come pick her up (parents not home). THe date ended there with a hug.

I feel really guilty right now, as i am usually cautious about her safety. I hope she didn't receive a fracture or anything worst. She is laughing and happy when i called her as soon as i got home, her atttidue was "It could of been so much worst so i'm grateful". So i'm posting here to hope for the best. Damn waht bad luck.

Right now the game doesn't even matter to me. SS techinques, nothing matters!! I'm hoping for the best.

Edit: She needs to go get her wrist examined by a doctor to know the condition of her arm. So i don't know of the diagnostic yet. God i feel like ****
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hahahah, holy sh*t thats funny!

oh man, this is one of those horror stories you laugh your a$$ of to but hope it never happens to you.

Hope it all ends up fine.

Oh man, that just made my day :)
 
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It's not like you did it on purpose...and it's not like she has some life threatening injury. Females handle pain brilliantly...she is fine. Once a month most females have cramps for a couple of days straight. We can give birth without any pain medication at all (and it hurts like a mofo). She doesn't appear to be bothered by it and knows you didn't do it on purpose...so lay off apologizing and feeling guilty. Everyone has little mishaps like this quite regularly...it is OK.
 
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