"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi guys, need some quick feedback on this particular situation.

Im currently in Norway until tomorrow and i had 2 dates with a kenyan girl here. First date went quite well, bit of kino from my side which she didnt reject, she also suggested another date for the next day and texted me the same night saying she had a good time.

Yesterday had 2nd date, where I ramped up a bit the kino and the conversation. Made my intentions quite clear and went for the kiss but she got defensive and turned away, saying its too soon.I then said "OK no problem, its my job to try, its your job to resist, I understand.". Also told her to hit me up today if she wants to see me again. However, im leaving tomorrow morning so we either meet today or there is no telling if or when we will see each other again.

She gets off her job in 2 hours but should I reach out to her or just wait and see if she texts me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea reach out, best case you get laid tonight, worst case some broad 999999 miles away you will never see again thinks youre a needy beta.
 

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Got shot down, but hey, at least I tried
 

Thorninmyside

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It's a strange world when Kenyan girls get to be picky. I guess with her being in Norway there are plenty of local options.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Only had 3 days to make something happen so had to push quite a bit, didnt work in the end....

In your view, is it still worthwhile to tease her with some text from time to time, on the off chance she might want to visit my country?
 

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Only had 3 days to make something happen so had to push quite a bit, didnt work in the end....

In your view, is it still worthwhile to tease her with some text from time to time, on the off chance she might want to visit my country?
Um no, why waste time on her and give her free validation? You will never see her again. Spend time on girls you can actually have.
 

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I actually find it admirable that a maiden resists the come-on from a lecher.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChristopherColumbus

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Well, I'm on holiday in a strange city for a few days. I've collected a few phone numbers, and can't for the life of me put the face to the name. I won't even bother trying to make contact, it was all about just having some fun, meeting people, and practicing my DJ skills.
 

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Norwegian chicks r hot. Y did not eat local?
I was quite disapointed with the local girls, most were quite chubby although with pretty faces. Of course you get the odd stunner but generally I was expecting far higher quality, like in Sweden or Denmark.
 

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Wah. They used to all be beautiful. Great feminism s trashed another country. :oops:
 
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