"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Last of the Alphas said:
No Facebook. No Twitter. No Instagram. No Snapchat. No whatsapp.
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This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The problem here is that the OP is using Facebook to get validation from others. I stopped caring what others thought a long time ago. My Facebook is primarily used for entertaining myself and entertaining others. I write funny 5hit for my status, others respond with funny 5hit, and it's a great time. I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.

If you need Facebook for validation from others and to feel important, you need to do a LOT of work on your confidence and self-esteem.
 
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Desdinova said:
I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.
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The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
 
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Tarfun said:
This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
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"social media image" god damn I hate this era so damn much. That term is just so trash, well what it means is. The best part is "Oh ya I'm famous on instagram I have 200K followers" me- " What do you do>" her *blank stares/doesnt do *****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yewki said:
The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for.
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You don't need facebook for some arsehole to do that.

Keep the losers and the rumour mills off your Facebook and you'll be fine. You shouldn't be bothering with those types of people anyway.
 
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Yewki said:
The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
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You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
 
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You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
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No but this person was. And this person. And this person. And this person. And these people. Lots and lots of cases.

Yeah most the time the person is acting like an idiot, so maybe they deserved it, but not always. Anything controversial could potentially get you in trouble. I'm an unconventional, cynical type person and I see FB as just being nonsense. So if I made it a habit to post there I know I'd piss people off. Whether or not I'd get in trouble, probably very unlikely but it'd always be in the back of my mind. Would rather not use it at all.
 
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