"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dat feel when you comment and like on a girl's picture

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No Facebook. No Twitter. No Instagram. No Snapchat. No whatsapp.
This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The problem here is that the OP is using Facebook to get validation from others. I stopped caring what others thought a long time ago. My Facebook is primarily used for entertaining myself and entertaining others. I write funny 5hit for my status, others respond with funny 5hit, and it's a great time. I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.

If you need Facebook for validation from others and to feel important, you need to do a LOT of work on your confidence and self-esteem.
 

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I do whatever the fvck I want on there and never worry about what others think.
The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
 

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This.

Honestly, I used to check up on girls all the time on social media. Now, any girl I wanna be with, I never allow them access to my social media and I never follow theirs.

It's all smoke and mirrors anyway, people spend far too much time cultivating their social media image and very little of it is truly real. You're far better off to be interesting and authentic in real life.
"social media image" god damn I hate this era so damn much. That term is just so trash, well what it means is. The best part is "Oh ya I'm famous on instagram I have 200K followers" me- " What do you do>" her *blank stares/doesnt do *****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for.
You don't need facebook for some arsehole to do that.

Keep the losers and the rumour mills off your Facebook and you'll be fine. You shouldn't be bothering with those types of people anyway.
 

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The problem is you can get reprimanded at work if some loser gets butthurt about something you wrote and does some detective work to find out who you work for. Pretty unlikely, but I would rather not have that as a possibility so I don't even bother with FB
You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
 

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You get reprimanded at work for what you post on Facebook? Sounds to me like you're doing this wrong already.
No but this person was. And this person. And this person. And this person. And these people. Lots and lots of cases.

Yeah most the time the person is acting like an idiot, so maybe they deserved it, but not always. Anything controversial could potentially get you in trouble. I'm an unconventional, cynical type person and I see FB as just being nonsense. So if I made it a habit to post there I know I'd piss people off. Whether or not I'd get in trouble, probably very unlikely but it'd always be in the back of my mind. Would rather not use it at all.
 
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