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Master Don Juan
I have always had these tiny dark dot-like things on each side of my nose. It's like in the area where facial hair doesn't grow. Does anybody know what I'm talking about? What are they?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dark mini-dots next to my nose
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
get cleansing strips....some of those that you put water on and then put it on your nose then after it dries you pull it off and all the **** comes off
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Have you tried neutrogena's 'new' Blackhead Removal creme? It's got little bead like things, feels almost like sand mixed in. You rub it between your palms while you're in the shower/at the sink and rub it into your face. Basically, it exfoliates the dead skin. From there you can use whatever products you need to get rid of the blackheads - and make sure that they stay away. In my opinion, Oxy pads and the like are crap. I've had SERIOUS acne my entire life, until I started using doctor-prescribed medicine - check out Retin-A, Tazorac, Accutane... the list goes on. They work.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Are you guys sure they are blackheads? These are more like miniature indentations in my face. Do blackheads do that or do they stick out from your face? I almost think these are just very large pores I have or something.
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
They're black heads. When your pores fill up w/crap they get bigger. Try squeezing a small patch and watch what happens 