"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dark color eyes effecting attractivity

Lambanien

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Heres a question. If your iris is so brown that you cannot distinguish between the pupil and the color of you eye, will a person not be able to find you as attractive since they can not tell that your pupils dilate when you see them, and doesnt give them enough hint to the fact that your interest in them?

Would it be the case that a person would look less attractive to you because you cannot see the difference between the color of your eye and the blackness of the pupil?

I notice I feel more attracted to gurls with light colored iris' so I kinda feel I know the answer but I dont like the answer.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oakraiderz2

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Someone being able to tell if your pupils dialate doesnt dicate whether they think youre attractive. God, where do you people get these questions from? I swear yall are perhaps a little sloooow.
 

kabatura

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Dont worry about it guy, you are looking into the dilated pupils thing way too much. Blind people get girlfriends, even hot girlfriends, and I would think most of their pupils don't dilate.
 

SmoothTalker

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Absolutely no impact. Think about it, if dark eyes were universally considered even a TINY bit less attractive, they would have slowly been selected out of the gene pool. Instead they are the most common color. Not to mention the 5 billion people in the world that have brown eyes seem to be having more than enough sex if world population is any indication.

Its all about preference. Some people prefer blue eyes, some brown, some want to be exotic and get green or something. Overall, I don't think it makes a difference.
 

loving

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I think eye size is more important than colour. But even still pupil dilation isnt always an accurate indicator of attraction - and so what even if it is? Life is too short to be caring about how big a girls pupils are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory

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This is a stupid question.

Maybe its attractive, maybe it isn't. In the grand scheme of things it might make up maybe 1/10,00th of your attractiveness.

Read the DJ Bible, and you understand why.
 
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