"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dark color eyes effecting attractivity

Lambanien

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Heres a question. If your iris is so brown that you cannot distinguish between the pupil and the color of you eye, will a person not be able to find you as attractive since they can not tell that your pupils dilate when you see them, and doesnt give them enough hint to the fact that your interest in them?

Would it be the case that a person would look less attractive to you because you cannot see the difference between the color of your eye and the blackness of the pupil?

I notice I feel more attracted to gurls with light colored iris' so I kinda feel I know the answer but I dont like the answer.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Someone being able to tell if your pupils dialate doesnt dicate whether they think youre attractive. God, where do you people get these questions from? I swear yall are perhaps a little sloooow.
 

kabatura

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Dont worry about it guy, you are looking into the dilated pupils thing way too much. Blind people get girlfriends, even hot girlfriends, and I would think most of their pupils don't dilate.
 

SmoothTalker

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Absolutely no impact. Think about it, if dark eyes were universally considered even a TINY bit less attractive, they would have slowly been selected out of the gene pool. Instead they are the most common color. Not to mention the 5 billion people in the world that have brown eyes seem to be having more than enough sex if world population is any indication.

Its all about preference. Some people prefer blue eyes, some brown, some want to be exotic and get green or something. Overall, I don't think it makes a difference.
 

loving

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I think eye size is more important than colour. But even still pupil dilation isnt always an accurate indicator of attraction - and so what even if it is? Life is too short to be caring about how big a girls pupils are.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alle_Gory

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This is a stupid question.

Maybe its attractive, maybe it isn't. In the grand scheme of things it might make up maybe 1/10,00th of your attractiveness.

Read the DJ Bible, and you understand why.
 
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