"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dark color eyes effecting attractivity

Lambanien

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Heres a question. If your iris is so brown that you cannot distinguish between the pupil and the color of you eye, will a person not be able to find you as attractive since they can not tell that your pupils dilate when you see them, and doesnt give them enough hint to the fact that your interest in them?

Would it be the case that a person would look less attractive to you because you cannot see the difference between the color of your eye and the blackness of the pupil?

I notice I feel more attracted to gurls with light colored iris' so I kinda feel I know the answer but I dont like the answer.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oakraiderz2

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Someone being able to tell if your pupils dialate doesnt dicate whether they think youre attractive. God, where do you people get these questions from? I swear yall are perhaps a little sloooow.
 

kabatura

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Dont worry about it guy, you are looking into the dilated pupils thing way too much. Blind people get girlfriends, even hot girlfriends, and I would think most of their pupils don't dilate.
 

SmoothTalker

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Absolutely no impact. Think about it, if dark eyes were universally considered even a TINY bit less attractive, they would have slowly been selected out of the gene pool. Instead they are the most common color. Not to mention the 5 billion people in the world that have brown eyes seem to be having more than enough sex if world population is any indication.

Its all about preference. Some people prefer blue eyes, some brown, some want to be exotic and get green or something. Overall, I don't think it makes a difference.
 

loving

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I think eye size is more important than colour. But even still pupil dilation isnt always an accurate indicator of attraction - and so what even if it is? Life is too short to be caring about how big a girls pupils are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alle_Gory

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This is a stupid question.

Maybe its attractive, maybe it isn't. In the grand scheme of things it might make up maybe 1/10,00th of your attractiveness.

Read the DJ Bible, and you understand why.
 
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