Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dark circles

Kaim Argonar

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Apart from its innocent/child-like appearance that reminds me of Tintin, it's the only thing that bothers me with my visage. It's hereditary, so there's nothing I can do to get rid of them.

I've yet to have been subjected to any bad joke or witty comment because of their prominence like "oh you don't get a lot of sleep do you?" (I DO sleep plentifully), but I dunno, I'd like to get some ointment to mask them.

Anyone dealt with this kind of stuff before? I'd love to be able to look at myself in the mirror, make a masculine pose to feel great about myself before beginning the day and not see these prominent blue nerves spoiling it all.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have the same problem, but I can manage to bring it under control. Its a lot to do with adequate sleep, drinking more water, exercise and a lot less TV and computer.
 

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Should I just buy some sort of make up at the drugstore?

It really seems to be a trait inherited from my grandmother, there isn't anything else you can do but that as far as life habits go. It's like that for some people.
 

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I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spesmilitis said:
I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
Spes nailed it.

I used to have prominent circles around my eyes. I was also partying until the c0ck stared to talk in them morning which didn't help things.

Putting your health in priority will drastically reduce the circles and thier outlines.
 

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spesmilitis said:
I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
I have them too and bad. They are worse when I don't get a lot of sleep but regardless they are there (and my diet is on point now).

You would think you'd be able to detoxify your body in much less time then that.. You said they got better during those 6-7 years..During that time did you change your environment (did you move)?

From what I read, one of the contributing causes can be allergies. Maybe you removed an allergin from your daily life and you didn't notice.
 

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Kaim Argonar said:
Apart from its innocent/child-like appearance that reminds me of Tintin, it's the only thing that bothers me with my visage. It's hereditary, so there's nothing I can do to get rid of them.

I've yet to have been subjected to any bad joke or witty comment because of their prominence like "oh you don't get a lot of sleep do you?" (I DO sleep plentifully), but I dunno, I'd like to get some ointment to mask them.

Anyone dealt with this kind of stuff before? I'd love to be able to look at myself in the mirror, make a masculine pose to feel great about myself before beginning the day and not see these prominent blue nerves spoiling it all.
Just reframe it, it probably makes you look badass.

I'M SO BADASS I DON'T GET ENOUGH SLEEP AND I DON'T GIVE A SHI'T.

Make it a part of you and no-one can use it against you. At the very worst, it can be a handicap. "This is good because it makes me lose points so that I can have a better challenge! I'm gonna be better than those dudes who are born good, because I'm gonna take on the challenge and overcome it with my raw stength of will!"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Try Nivea Aqua sensation Anti-shadow Eye Cream. I dunno if it works, cause i haven't yet dedicated myself to putting it on twice daily ha ha
 
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