"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kaim Argonar

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Apart from its innocent/child-like appearance that reminds me of Tintin, it's the only thing that bothers me with my visage. It's hereditary, so there's nothing I can do to get rid of them.

I've yet to have been subjected to any bad joke or witty comment because of their prominence like "oh you don't get a lot of sleep do you?" (I DO sleep plentifully), but I dunno, I'd like to get some ointment to mask them.

Anyone dealt with this kind of stuff before? I'd love to be able to look at myself in the mirror, make a masculine pose to feel great about myself before beginning the day and not see these prominent blue nerves spoiling it all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have the same problem, but I can manage to bring it under control. Its a lot to do with adequate sleep, drinking more water, exercise and a lot less TV and computer.
 

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Should I just buy some sort of make up at the drugstore?

It really seems to be a trait inherited from my grandmother, there isn't anything else you can do but that as far as life habits go. It's like that for some people.
 

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I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
 

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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spesmilitis said:
I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
Spes nailed it.

I used to have prominent circles around my eyes. I was also partying until the c0ck stared to talk in them morning which didn't help things.

Putting your health in priority will drastically reduce the circles and thier outlines.
 

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spesmilitis said:
I used to have them, not anymore, removed gradually over the course of 6-7 years. Can't pinpoint what removed it, but things that may have contributed: more red meat and eggs in my diet, more fresh fruit and veggies esp leafy green veggies, fish oil, olive oil, vitamens and minerals, less refined/process carbs/sugars, less poly-6 unsaturated fats, exercise strength training and conditioning.

Edit: I still have outlines of the 'rings', but circles are not a defining feature of my face anymore.
I have them too and bad. They are worse when I don't get a lot of sleep but regardless they are there (and my diet is on point now).

You would think you'd be able to detoxify your body in much less time then that.. You said they got better during those 6-7 years..During that time did you change your environment (did you move)?

From what I read, one of the contributing causes can be allergies. Maybe you removed an allergin from your daily life and you didn't notice.
 

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Kaim Argonar said:
Apart from its innocent/child-like appearance that reminds me of Tintin, it's the only thing that bothers me with my visage. It's hereditary, so there's nothing I can do to get rid of them.

I've yet to have been subjected to any bad joke or witty comment because of their prominence like "oh you don't get a lot of sleep do you?" (I DO sleep plentifully), but I dunno, I'd like to get some ointment to mask them.

Anyone dealt with this kind of stuff before? I'd love to be able to look at myself in the mirror, make a masculine pose to feel great about myself before beginning the day and not see these prominent blue nerves spoiling it all.
Just reframe it, it probably makes you look badass.

I'M SO BADASS I DON'T GET ENOUGH SLEEP AND I DON'T GIVE A SHI'T.

Make it a part of you and no-one can use it against you. At the very worst, it can be a handicap. "This is good because it makes me lose points so that I can have a better challenge! I'm gonna be better than those dudes who are born good, because I'm gonna take on the challenge and overcome it with my raw stength of will!"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Try Nivea Aqua sensation Anti-shadow Eye Cream. I dunno if it works, cause i haven't yet dedicated myself to putting it on twice daily ha ha
 
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