Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dark Chocolate - the desert that is really healthy for you

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I love the research that keeps coming out on this because truthfully, I am a dark chocolate fiend. It's pretty much the only treat to myself other than Dole Whip every once in a while. I eat dark chocolate daily other than fasting days...

Highly anti-inflammatory, contains numerous flavonoids and other antioxidants. Also since it comes from a plant source it's high in various other protective plant compounds as well.

Studies have shown significant decreases in pro-inflammatory markers like TNF-Alpha, IL-6 and CRP in people who ate 70% or higher dark chocolate a few times a week. I typically prefer 85% but will eat 70% if I can't find it as well as using baking chocolate which is almost pure chocolate.

Other studies show a decreased risk of CVD and atherosclerosis in the coronary arteries. Similar studies showed significant decreases in both systolic and diastolic blood pressure as well.

Dark chocolate has also been associated with significant LDL reductions and lower fasting blood sugar levels.

Will it cure all your health issues? No, but the fact that it both tastes good and is exceptionally good for you should be enough to start adding it to your diet.

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I consume a lot of cacao, I have to assume most if not all of the benefits of dark chocolate come from that.

It's dessert.

Eating a desert is not recommended.
Not really, it's pretty low in sugar.
 

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Science has shown for some years now that cocoa is truly 'the food of the Gods' as it was known by the natives in Central and South America. Just look up Kuna Indians and cocoa.
As an alternative to 85-90% chocolates, use a fork to smash a couple bananas and mix with 5-8 (depending on taste) teaspoons of organic cocoa. Probably the best tasting and healthiest dessert there is.
 

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This is misleading. Yes, cocoa has a lot of great stuff in it. However, the form consumed in the west (dessert, candy bars, etc.) is just a bunch of added sugar and fat. Cocoa by itself is bitter and not very tasty.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is misleading. Yes, cocoa has a lot of great stuff in it. However, the form consumed in the west (dessert, candy bars, etc.) is just a bunch of added sugar and fat. Cocoa by itself is bitter and not very tasty.
Cocao on its own isn't amazing but I used to drink it with boiled water and it wasn't bad. But I mix it in with oats or in smoothies typically. On occasion it gives me quite a strong mood boost.

Like cacao powder? That's pretty much what baking chocolate powder is.
Yeah, I use this https://www.amazon.com/Organic-Cacao-Powder-Unsweetened-Gluten-Free/dp/B00P6TUO5G

It's also pretty low in nutrients and will give you a mouth as dry as Gobi.
Nigga read OPs post again
 

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This is misleading. Yes, cocoa has a lot of great stuff in it. However, the form consumed in the west (dessert, candy bars, etc.) is just a bunch of added sugar and fat. Cocoa by itself is bitter and not very tasty.
How is an 85% dark chocolate bar misleading? That's literally what the study was with and you can readily buy that in the store and what I eat.

There is nothing misleading about it. The study was not about eating 100% dark chocolate. Did you actually read the article? You seem to not actually be reading a lot of these then chiming in with random stuff that is refuted in the articles/studies.
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
Stayed with an Old nutritionist in China,he similarly ate a little square of German Dark Orange Chocolate daily,made it to a 110....In reading about people who have made really Old Bones,the imbibing of a little alcohol and munching a bit of chocolate crops up regularly....Like Flexpert I drink Hershies US made Cocoa daily,in hot water,with a little Honey....Someone mentioned the Amerindians using Cocoa,he should know they used their rear orifice to imbibe,bit uncomfortable with the Banana LOL.
 

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Hi Amsterdam,
"Try Belgian"....Yes I have,this is what they feed the angels in Paradise,but rarely seen here,and dear as poisen....One of my Plates brought me
Cocoa from Colombia,that was the best though....We can buy German Chocolate at a price and that is good quality,our home grown variety tastes like chalk!
 

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When my diet was more dialed in I loved 85% chocolate. Due to my ADHD, I cut all sugar massively (I surpassed my ADHD I don't take meds) however I've fallen off the wagon these last 3-4 months.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi Amsterdam,
Holland is an Old trading Nation,living where you do in a huge free trade Market you have choice and variety....Living at the end of the Earth,Our Shopping is dominated by just two operators,New Zealand is even worse....To buy Hersheys Cocoa I have to pay $60 a year for a card to access a rogue trader called Cossco the only people to sell it...I wouldn't do that if there were a reasonable alternative.
 
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