"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What happens if you have $ex with a woman during this time? It means you ejectlated it defeats the object of no fap somewhere along the lines.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No fap is about not masterbating yourself. Sex with a woman is much greater than materbation, even though both result in orgasm are very different.
 
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care to explain HOW they are different? How does your body "know' that anything is different, hmm? Many a sexual encounter is considerably less enjoyable than masturbation, guys. Ask any man who's been around a while (as vs college kids).
 
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prison/con.net said:
care to explain HOW they are different? How does your body "know' that anything is different, hmm? Many a sexual encounter is considerably less enjoyable than masturbation, guys. Ask any man who's been around a while (as vs college kids).
Your hand doesnt have pheremones and secretions a woman does. A whole bunch of chemical and brain reactions kick in when its sex with a female. Its also the psychology of it. Sex build a much more powerful psychology for a male vs.masterbation. why.dont you reasearch is sex the same as masterbation? I already have, youll see for yourself. DJ needs to be having plenty of sex and letting the ladies handle his c0ck.
 
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uhhuh. and those secretions reach you HOW if you're using a condom? Those brain reactions are almost all in your "little head" and are anti-survival for you personally, so you'd better learn to control them. what's good for the species often has NOTHING to do with the survival of the INDIVIDUL of that species. It might be good for the species if the male black widow impregnates the female, but then she KILLS him. Beware those stupid "instincts" and chemicals, guys. The species can go straight to hell, as far as I"m concerned.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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prison/con.net said:
uhhuh. and those secretions reach you HOW if you're using a condom? Those brain reactions are almost all in your "little head" and are anti-survival for you personally, so you'd better learn to control them. what's good for the species often has NOTHING to do with the survival of the species. It might be good for the species if the male black widow impregnates the female, but then she KILLS him. Beware those stupid "instincts" and chemicals, guys. The species can go straight to hell, as far as I"m concerned.
Thru your nose and some thru skin to skin contact not on your **** guy...

A lot of it is in the scent. Please research this for yourself over a week or so so you can learn how important it is for a male to be mating.

And yes these black widows will kill you! And yes you can be so stupid behind puzzy it is not wortht it in the end. But it doesn't always have to be this way. Make good choices in who you lay with.
 

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The muscles in your hand are 10x stronger than a woman's vag so desensitization is likely. Also if you're constantly rewarding yourself, there will be no real reason/motivation to accomplish anything since your needs are being met. I would put fapping in the same category as overeating/drinking/smoking/drug use.
 
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James Dupri said:
The muscles in your hand are 10x stronger than a woman's vag so desensitization is likely. Also if you're constantly rewarding yourself, there will be no real reason/motivation to accomplish anything since your needs are being met. I would put fapping in the same category as overeating/drinking/smoking/drug use.
I do too, especially for a DJ who should know better! Jagging off is for little kids.
 
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