I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your hand doesnt have pheremones and secretions a woman does. A whole bunch of chemical and brain reactions kick in when its sex with a female. Its also the psychology of it. Sex build a much more powerful psychology for a male vs.masterbation. why.dont you reasearch is sex the same as masterbation? I already have, youll see for yourself. DJ needs to be having plenty of sex and letting the ladies handle his c0ck.prison/con.net said:care to explain HOW they are different? How does your body "know' that anything is different, hmm? Many a sexual encounter is considerably less enjoyable than masturbation, guys. Ask any man who's been around a while (as vs college kids).
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thru your nose and some thru skin to skin contact not on your **** guy...prison/con.net said:uhhuh. and those secretions reach you HOW if you're using a condom? Those brain reactions are almost all in your "little head" and are anti-survival for you personally, so you'd better learn to control them. what's good for the species often has NOTHING to do with the survival of the species. It might be good for the species if the male black widow impregnates the female, but then she KILLS him. Beware those stupid "instincts" and chemicals, guys. The species can go straight to hell, as far as I"m concerned.
I do too, especially for a DJ who should know better! Jagging off is for little kids.James Dupri said:The muscles in your hand are 10x stronger than a woman's vag so desensitization is likely. Also if you're constantly rewarding yourself, there will be no real reason/motivation to accomplish anything since your needs are being met. I would put fapping in the same category as overeating/drinking/smoking/drug use.