"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mangotot

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What happens if you have $ex with a woman during this time? It means you ejectlated it defeats the object of no fap somewhere along the lines.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No fap is about not masterbating yourself. Sex with a woman is much greater than materbation, even though both result in orgasm are very different.
 
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care to explain HOW they are different? How does your body "know' that anything is different, hmm? Many a sexual encounter is considerably less enjoyable than masturbation, guys. Ask any man who's been around a while (as vs college kids).
 
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prison/con.net said:
care to explain HOW they are different? How does your body "know' that anything is different, hmm? Many a sexual encounter is considerably less enjoyable than masturbation, guys. Ask any man who's been around a while (as vs college kids).
Your hand doesnt have pheremones and secretions a woman does. A whole bunch of chemical and brain reactions kick in when its sex with a female. Its also the psychology of it. Sex build a much more powerful psychology for a male vs.masterbation. why.dont you reasearch is sex the same as masterbation? I already have, youll see for yourself. DJ needs to be having plenty of sex and letting the ladies handle his c0ck.
 
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uhhuh. and those secretions reach you HOW if you're using a condom? Those brain reactions are almost all in your "little head" and are anti-survival for you personally, so you'd better learn to control them. what's good for the species often has NOTHING to do with the survival of the INDIVIDUL of that species. It might be good for the species if the male black widow impregnates the female, but then she KILLS him. Beware those stupid "instincts" and chemicals, guys. The species can go straight to hell, as far as I"m concerned.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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prison/con.net said:
uhhuh. and those secretions reach you HOW if you're using a condom? Those brain reactions are almost all in your "little head" and are anti-survival for you personally, so you'd better learn to control them. what's good for the species often has NOTHING to do with the survival of the species. It might be good for the species if the male black widow impregnates the female, but then she KILLS him. Beware those stupid "instincts" and chemicals, guys. The species can go straight to hell, as far as I"m concerned.
Thru your nose and some thru skin to skin contact not on your **** guy...

A lot of it is in the scent. Please research this for yourself over a week or so so you can learn how important it is for a male to be mating.

And yes these black widows will kill you! And yes you can be so stupid behind puzzy it is not wortht it in the end. But it doesn't always have to be this way. Make good choices in who you lay with.
 

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The muscles in your hand are 10x stronger than a woman's vag so desensitization is likely. Also if you're constantly rewarding yourself, there will be no real reason/motivation to accomplish anything since your needs are being met. I would put fapping in the same category as overeating/drinking/smoking/drug use.
 
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James Dupri said:
The muscles in your hand are 10x stronger than a woman's vag so desensitization is likely. Also if you're constantly rewarding yourself, there will be no real reason/motivation to accomplish anything since your needs are being met. I would put fapping in the same category as overeating/drinking/smoking/drug use.
I do too, especially for a DJ who should know better! Jagging off is for little kids.
 
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