"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dangers of Tan Beds

Sayajin_Prince

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i was thinking of doing some sessions of tanning in a gym but some say it ****s up with the melanine ( skin pigmentation ) and causes cancer.


does anyone here went to do or still does some of these tanning sessions ?

how many days a week you do it? and how many minutes?

do u use any products before or after the tanning ?


i'm really concerned about this cancer thing but autumn is comming ( no more beach or vacations ) and i want to keep a tan since im joining the gym and it sure does help for you to notice improvements in the definition of your body.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tristan22

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I tan about 3 to 4 times per week. Yes, i am also very afraid of skin cancer, but i take the chance.

If you have red hair and fair skin, i would stay clear of tanning beds!
 

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I'm by no means a professional on the issue but i was under the impression that tanning on a tanning bed was safer then tanning outside because you were only exposed to the non-dangerous rays not the whole spectrum.
 

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I'm 24, I tanned 3 times a week from 18-22. When i was 22 I got diagnosed with melanoma, the kind of skin cancer that spreads and can kill you.

If you can avoid tanning do it. I understand it boosts your confidence so I am not knocking anyone who does it. Plus, I never thought I'd be one of the small percentages that get it.


I was just lucky they caught it early before it spread to my lymph nodes.
 

tristan22

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^^^^^^^^^^^^

What were your symptoms and what did the mole look like?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bible_Belt

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Wake Forest has published research that essentially proves that tanning beds are chemically addictive. The UV light releases endorphins.
 

tristan22

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^^^^^

Maybe to some people, however it's not essential for me to go. I go if i feel like it!
 
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