"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dangerous weapons - Techniques to get women to sleep with you

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While reading on the Internet, at 5.10am, I wanted to ask the following question:

What powerful techniques can be used to get a woman to want to come home with you, and then sleep with you?

I am probably going to get the "get your game going first!" and "talk to girls, and get your macking on!" and to that, well, I have another post I am going to write, regarding how brilliant I am at getting dates.

So why ask a question requesting information on speed seduction and the like, if I have dates?

The reason, is because:

I have had many, many dates this year, and a long-term girlfriend, but have not had any one night stands!

I really want to get good at taking girls home. I feel it's the last hurdle, before longer relationships, that I have to surpass.

What do you use to do it? What is the most powerful weapon?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you stay tuned I’m working on a clubbing/ONS article. I will most likely post it tomorrow.

I am a self proclaimed expert on ONS's.
 

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I think a girl subconsciously knows ahead of time whether she's open to an ONS so I don't know if there are any tactics you can use. You can't have her look at you as a LTR material though...that kills all ONS chances.
 

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Back during my college/law school days I was a ONS fiend.

To answer your question, there really is no technique other than to observe your surroundings in a social setting be it at a club or party and notice through body language and other factors which women are open to being approached and who appear horny.

If you read about the Gunwitch method he pretty much lays out the basics in doing ONS.

Of course, sometimes there is not much effort at all as when the occassional drunken slut shows up out of nowhere at a club and tells you to take her home which happened to me not long ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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from my several one-night stands, its not that hard...

here is how it happens for me every time

-isolate isolate isolate
-attract (c&f, laid back, rapport, stories, etc)
-kino kino kino
-raise sexual state (more sexual eye contact, etc)
-kiss-close
-raise sexual state/go caveman/let her put up some ASDs/bust them/be patient
-f-close
 

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Originally posted by sapphire


Of course, sometimes there is not much effort at all as when the occassional drunken slut shows up out of nowhere at a club and tells you to take her home which happened to me not long ago.
ahhh...

one of my best ONS stories happened like that when i was younger...
 

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well, like you said it yourself, you will have to have other stuff going first, like rapport, interest, etc. but, seems like you've had your share of dates.

so, i've got one word for you my friend, and this is the biggest thing in my "arsenal"

it's called KINO

touch her, touch her so much that she can't stand not being touched by you.

that's one of the biggest things i've improved and continue to try and improve on, because it really is that important. just be sensual and smooth, and touch that woman like there's no tomorrow.

again, for emphasis:

behold the power of KINO

...and then, you know that sly smile a girl gives when they smile/blush with that sparkle in their eyes...you know that's the bedroom smile, when they're ready to be thrown on the bed and...well, get her warmed up and get a few of those smiles from her...you'll be good
 

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
One night stands only work for ridiculously gorgeous men.

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
you sound like one of those frustrated, "average/below average females."

:crackup:

wait, i'm sorry, why are you here?

edit: other than to give crap advice because you're frustrated with your "average/below average" situation? lol, this is the second time i've read something you wrote and it was crap...3rd time and i'm calling you out
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
So... come here often...?
 

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
One night stands only work for ridiculously gorgeous men.

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
Do you live in a cave ?
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
from my several one-night stands, its not that hard...

here is how it happens for me every time

-isolate isolate isolate

-f-close
I happen to go to one of them tanning salons, and met this cute girl there... Didn't hit on her, but just inquired about the prices and her feelings about working there.

I sat there thinking what I was goin to do when she invites me in the back empty rooms where the tanning beds are...

The two of us were alone in a dark room... Isolated, and what do I do... nothing!! :eek:
 

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And then

Some replies so far. Anyone else want to comment?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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