"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dangerous weapons - Techniques to get women to sleep with you

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While reading on the Internet, at 5.10am, I wanted to ask the following question:

What powerful techniques can be used to get a woman to want to come home with you, and then sleep with you?

I am probably going to get the "get your game going first!" and "talk to girls, and get your macking on!" and to that, well, I have another post I am going to write, regarding how brilliant I am at getting dates.

So why ask a question requesting information on speed seduction and the like, if I have dates?

The reason, is because:

I have had many, many dates this year, and a long-term girlfriend, but have not had any one night stands!

I really want to get good at taking girls home. I feel it's the last hurdle, before longer relationships, that I have to surpass.

What do you use to do it? What is the most powerful weapon?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you stay tuned I’m working on a clubbing/ONS article. I will most likely post it tomorrow.

I am a self proclaimed expert on ONS's.
 

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I think a girl subconsciously knows ahead of time whether she's open to an ONS so I don't know if there are any tactics you can use. You can't have her look at you as a LTR material though...that kills all ONS chances.
 

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Back during my college/law school days I was a ONS fiend.

To answer your question, there really is no technique other than to observe your surroundings in a social setting be it at a club or party and notice through body language and other factors which women are open to being approached and who appear horny.

If you read about the Gunwitch method he pretty much lays out the basics in doing ONS.

Of course, sometimes there is not much effort at all as when the occassional drunken slut shows up out of nowhere at a club and tells you to take her home which happened to me not long ago.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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from my several one-night stands, its not that hard...

here is how it happens for me every time

-isolate isolate isolate
-attract (c&f, laid back, rapport, stories, etc)
-kino kino kino
-raise sexual state (more sexual eye contact, etc)
-kiss-close
-raise sexual state/go caveman/let her put up some ASDs/bust them/be patient
-f-close
 

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Originally posted by sapphire


Of course, sometimes there is not much effort at all as when the occassional drunken slut shows up out of nowhere at a club and tells you to take her home which happened to me not long ago.
ahhh...

one of my best ONS stories happened like that when i was younger...
 

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well, like you said it yourself, you will have to have other stuff going first, like rapport, interest, etc. but, seems like you've had your share of dates.

so, i've got one word for you my friend, and this is the biggest thing in my "arsenal"

it's called KINO

touch her, touch her so much that she can't stand not being touched by you.

that's one of the biggest things i've improved and continue to try and improve on, because it really is that important. just be sensual and smooth, and touch that woman like there's no tomorrow.

again, for emphasis:

behold the power of KINO

...and then, you know that sly smile a girl gives when they smile/blush with that sparkle in their eyes...you know that's the bedroom smile, when they're ready to be thrown on the bed and...well, get her warmed up and get a few of those smiles from her...you'll be good
 

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
One night stands only work for ridiculously gorgeous men.

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
you sound like one of those frustrated, "average/below average females."

:crackup:

wait, i'm sorry, why are you here?

edit: other than to give crap advice because you're frustrated with your "average/below average" situation? lol, this is the second time i've read something you wrote and it was crap...3rd time and i'm calling you out
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
So... come here often...?
 

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
One night stands only work for ridiculously gorgeous men.

Otherwise, just stick to average/below average females.
Do you live in a cave ?
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
from my several one-night stands, its not that hard...

here is how it happens for me every time

-isolate isolate isolate

-f-close
I happen to go to one of them tanning salons, and met this cute girl there... Didn't hit on her, but just inquired about the prices and her feelings about working there.

I sat there thinking what I was goin to do when she invites me in the back empty rooms where the tanning beds are...

The two of us were alone in a dark room... Isolated, and what do I do... nothing!! :eek:
 

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And then

Some replies so far. Anyone else want to comment?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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